Never been to a swinger's club. Been to a few parties where I was the only woman.

 

Ondrea how were those parties ?

 

I usually only have clothing optional parties with people we invite.
I would never just walk into a random "Swingers' gathering.

 

My wife and I were invited to our first swingers party by a couple we had played around with. It was exciting and we both had a great time. There was one other couple that we knew, but didn't know they too were swingers. We loved the idea of knowing nothing about a couple before having some fun. From then on we were invited to their monthly get togethers and loved it all.

 

My first wife and I were recruited into a group with a very stringent set of rules and processes. We were recruited by a couple friend of ours, who became our sponsors. After we had played with them several times, they mentioned a group they were members with and asked if we would be interested. We were vetted by a 3 couple "committee" a couple of times and then presented to the full membership. Our very first full membership party was strictly watching. We were allowed to watch, we could have sex together or masturbate, but could not join in with the other members. The 2nd time we were allowed full access. After the 2nd time, members voted to allow or not. There were all kinds there, women with better bodies than my wife, guys with bigger cocks than mine. We both said it took about 3-4 times to get use to the idea of all the nakedness and ease of sex. Mind you , these were private group and not clubs. The very first couple swap was strange and awkward. We had a few 3somes with a few of my first wifes friends, even our sponsor, but sex with her and her husband was awkward at first. I definitely got the better end of the deal as Sue was much better looking than Tom, but my wife was more into to Sue, so it made it go easier.. After the 3-4th time, we settled in for a wonderful 5.5 years until she and another wife "fell in love" and ran off together. So another husband and I had to leave the group. Never broached the subject with current wife, she never was that bold about sex...

 

My wife wife and I started with a 3-some

 

That’s what I want to start with…whatever she likes, FMF or MFM

 

Its hotter than shit watching your wife with another woman but with another guy is a different story. It took time for me

 

I enjoy watching my wife with either a guy or woman. It is a huge turn on

 

The idea of swinging was always very appealing

 

I think you would find it deeply satisfying and fulfilling (more ways than one) because its totally girl centric. No guys can pester or be thirsty. If you can verbalize what you want, they will find someone(s) who can fulfill your needs

 

Awkward, nervy, but once got going with the 1st bit of fun... all great.

 

Have to throw in my thoughts here. Could anyone define what the difference is between swinging, gangbang, naked party, drinking party with promiscuous attenders, and hot tub or pool party get togethers.

 

Swinging .. maybe like these?

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Never been to a swingers club but love the idea of having fun with girls and guys oh yeah

 

Been to a club and it’s not only fun but also charged with sexual energy. Awesome feeling even if not sharing or engaging with anyone else and just watching and letting others watch you. Just seeing others stroke to my wife was sooo hot!!!

 

Been to a few. First one I went as a single male, had a great time, joined a threesome but the guy fucking her didn't want to switch even though the husband who was watching wanted us to so I just got sucked off (my first with an audience). Then most other times with my wife, a lot of fun was had. Other than the occasional blowjob or something stayed clothed when out of the playroom.

 

First time we went to an actual club was good, since we were well versed with sharing at home and in motels. It was just alot more people. Took some time but we had tons of fun. Some clubs have lots of rules, others don't. We have one that's especially fun because it's just group sex the whole night, happens 4 times a year. It's also one of the few events that allow party favors. Wife usually brings coke with her. She gets wild.

 

Would like to go to a local swingers club (only one for many, many miles around) but highly suspect my dad frequents it with his gf, so wouldn't want to run into them there with the wife.

We don't know any friends who are into the lifestyle.